Do you feel heard?

Imagine a mountain of essays, like a literary Everest, all crammed into a box, just waiting for their big break or maybe a good dusting! Let’s dive into one of these dusty gems:

“There they laugh: they do not understand me; I am not the mouth for these ears…”

F. Nietzsche

I could stare at this quote forever, feeling deep hurt in my brain and soul.

Is anyone listening?

I’m asking seriously. Do you feel heard? And if so, where and by whom?

Is it on social media (I doubt it), at home (your family), at work (your colleagues), at school, your spouse, partner, friend, therapist… or anyone else I’ve missed? Is there anyone truly listening?

I’ve felt the same way like Nietzsche for ages. The people around me were the reason I wasn't being heard. But I don’t blame anyone. This is just my story.

In the books I read, I’ve found authors who speak with such depth and sincerity. We’ve shared similar experiences, which made me realise I can’t expect anyone to truly understand me. No one can be me. But if they tried to walk a mile in my shoes with a bit of empathy, maybe they’d get a clue. But again, and again, and again! Empathy? Hmph, is there any left in people? Selfishness has spread like a virus worldwide.

Remember, everyone on this planet has only one goal: “to be happy.” If you kill to achieve happiness, aren’t you taking away their right to happiness?

If someone nearby hears you truly, hold onto them like a lifeline.

And no matter what, remember, if you want to hear, the most agonising screams are hidden in silence… Listen to the silence.